THERAPY FOR A FAILING LOVE

Love comes in a rush, sometimes with a long crush, but goes slowly, very quick when our hearts are crushed. Love meets us at a time when we need somebody, it begins to go away when we feel we have had enough, or need another. Ever been in love and felt like in heaven? It is hell when love begins to die, worse when it totally dies only in your heart, while mine yearns for you. Remembering the sweet times and moments we shared, I wouldnt let it die, eventhough you want it to, because I know you once loved me, and you still can.

I search for solutions, ask questions, in my quest for knowledge, I become a reader, and meet the writer, the answers come through the following questions; did you ever love me, if you did, why have you changed, or is it not me anymore ?

WRITER: 0ne thing is to catch a man, and another to keep him, one way to do this, is to continue doing what you did to catch him.

READER: I did that, I still do, I have always done.

WRITER: That means you have not changed, he did, changed in which sense, if positive, you need to change too, because he obviously wants something better.

READER : I changed, I improved on myself, asked him what he wanted, did all I could, but he never gave in.

WRITER: It could be that he has changed for the negative.

READER: How do I bring him back to himself ?

WRITER: Take him back to where you met him, do things that would remind him of how you both started, and how sweet it was.

READER: I tried to, but he won't let me, when he does, he pretends not to remember.

WRITER: I see, he is sure tired of you, you made him to, because you gave him no space, give him some space.

READER: What if he runs to another, and does'nt come back ?

WRITER: I never said you should leave him.

READER: but you just did

WRITER: You can leave a man and still be with him, by loving, praying, and caring from a distance. Try this, if it doesnt work, you can come back, remember, do not stop reading, and keep loving.