Coping with Challenges of being a House-Wife.

Contrary to what many insincere folks say, marriage is actually the man's world, if it must work, the man must be be served, cared for and treated like a king. This makes marriage very challenging, because the man's quest come first, and should be placed above everything else. Every wise woman know's that her first responsibility as woman is to serve her husband, this is really not easy for them, because some men can be difficult at times.

True as it is that every woman is meant to serve her husband, it is also important to note that every woman loves adventure, and this she finds in her place of work. Sometimes, these jobs could be interfering too, this is why some families simply go for house helps, if they can afford them. Some may not be able to, or some men may not simply substitute their wive's meal for that of an house help, and may even prefer having them quit their jobs. This is not really good, as it may have aftermath implications as time progresses . Talking about sex, some women find it difficult rising up when they are approached, or are more often not in the mood, because they are always warn out from work.

Being an absolute house wife comes with its unpleasant traumas, infact, it is worse, because one may begin to suffer boredom, and other thoughts may begin to drift in as a result of idleness. In order to cope with these challenges and more, the following might be helpful:

1. Mutual understanding: You can humbly explain to your husband, and come to terms of agreement; every man listens when he is being spoken to like a god.

2. Share your time: Share your work time and your family time, and make sure the family is given prior concern.

3. Contract your job or save and run: Begin to think of quitting the job, if it doesn't allow you to have time for your husband and the family, but however, don't do this until you have found another job, or you have saved enough money to start a business, which you can run at your own convenience.

4. Work and rest: Resting is as important as working, while doing the house chores and office work, you must finish on time, rest and be mentally prepared to receive your husband and the children, if you are a full house wife, get a job, start a mini business, just to keep you busy, and remember to rest as well.

5. Groom the children early to help you with the house chores: As children begin to come, do not reserve some house chores for any particular gender, because some times the children may just end up being one sex all through, teach them everything, irrespective of their gender.