The Ultimate end of an over stretched marital relationship.

When marriage become over bearing, irritating, and frustrating, couples begin to consider options such as separation or divorce, but these do not mean the end, the end is reflected on the impact of these options on the life of the individual involved or even their children and external family. Three effects of separation :

1. The individuals involved may not be able to rediscover themselves as thought, but may rather fall into love again, this time, with the wrong person, because of the crave to fill in the vacuum which has been created by the absence of the spouse.

2.Children from such marriages may have the wrong impression of one or both of them, and this has a long lasting impression on the minds of such children, making them timid, arrogant, violent, or to have strong hatred for the opposite sex.

3.Marrital secrets become publisized: The same things couples have always kept secret for the prestige of the family become exposed, and such couples become a laughing stock to the public.

Three effects of divorce:

1. Children get separated from one of their parents or some times, both: This makes the children feel rejected, unfortunate, and hopeless. As a result of separation from one or both parents, children lack basic intrinsic values of their parents, children find it difficult calling them mother or father, as the case may be.

2. Couples become Divorcees: This leaves a very bad impression on such couples, they may never be able to marry again, if they want to. A woman who had a man all to herself, or a man who had a woman all to himself now has non, once married, now single, this creates a vacuum which is almost imposible to fill.

3. Everlasting guilt: Each time a divorcee sees her children who are now no more under his/her care, there is this unavoidable sense of guilt that comes with it, I would have endured, I could have made things better, how I wished I was there for you.

Yes, you can endure, yes, you can make things better, no, separation or divorce is not an option, Please consider the future before calling it quit.